If you’ve been following my writing for a while, or even if you’ve only read a story or two, chances are good that you’ve noticed I really like threesomes with two guys and a girl (MMF). I’ve written about it personally, fictionally, and in short stories and full-length novels. In fact, if I have a common denominator between my wide array of erotica genres and kinks, it’s probably that.
It may help that the first time I kissed a boy there was a girl right next to us kissing my ear and telling me how hot it was to watch. And maybe it doesn’t hurt that during my freshman year of college I had at least three experiences with a girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend) and a good male friend. Some of which were hot, some a little awkward, and some just downright amazing. In fact, I suspect that my overwhelmingly positive experiences with threesomes (which I’ve been told is odd) definitely helped.
But what is it about a threesome that does it for me, and what specifically is it about MMF that works the best (nothing against FFM, those can also be super fun too)?
It’s easiest to say that it just ticks all my buttons: voyeurism, exhibitionism, jealousy, and slutty women. I don’t mean to imply that a girl who sleeps with two men at the same time is a slut, but it’s often a kink that comes up in those settings, and many of the women I’ve been with have expressed how decadent and naughty it feels to fuck two men at once. It does often make them feel dirty and greedy in a way that is profoundly enticing.
As a bisexual man, it’s also fun having another guy there to mess around with. And I love the expression on a woman’s face who is totally getting off on watching me with another man. But I suspect there’s also a part of it that feels like I’m participating in porn. As a guy watching straight porn, it’s in many ways already an MMF. And when it’s happening in person, when I’m sitting next to a girl who’s getting fucked hard by a friend, it’s just like watching a good movie except I get to participate as well.
I’d be curious to hear other people’s thoughts on why they find that situation hot because I’m sure there are as many reasons as there are people. Maybe you like to pretend she’s cheating on you, or maybe you love the feeling of being wanted by two men who are willing to share. Maybe you get off on giving a woman exactly what she wants, and maybe you feel like a filthy slut letting two men take turns using you. And, of course, it’s also possible that you just enjoy all the love and silliness that can come with a beautiful threesome with kind and caring people.
As I put together my latest collections (aptly titled MMF) I found that I had more reasons than I could count. So instead, I put them all together into one 167 page book. From cuckolds and hotwives to romantic encounters and even some non-consent kink, the book is full of men and women who desire each other in that beautiful combination.
I hope you might pick up a copy of the book, and I’d also love to hear your thoughts about it. Feel free to leave a comment, drop me a note on Tumblr, or send me an email.
You can see the cover of the new book below, and while it’s only on iBooks as of this morning, it should be at a bunch more retailers soon. Click the cover (or here) to visit the book page and to read more.
(Cover photo by The Dirty Gentleman)